Making Contact
February 19, 2009
Ok, so it’s been over 10 days now, and I haven’t heard a thing, not even a “Geezer!” and so I’m not sure what to do?
For once in my life I didn’t partake in any complete random casual stranger sex, because I actually liked the guy. I hazily thought that if I wasn’t so willing to give it up, then maybe, just maybe, I would actually remain in contact with TJ? Well, it seems as if I’m damned if I do, and damned if I don’t!
WTF is wrong? With me? With Boys in general? With the world? Oh dear… We all know how it goes… We don’t hear from someone we want desperately want to, and it’s all over. And it is.
Last week, I said to my girlfriend, that I would really really like to keep in contact with TJ, if nothing else, he was a very cool guy that I would like to be friends with, but also, I became extremely self-conscious, because, not that any of you would know besides taking me for my word, he was extremely good looking, and I’m not. I guess I’m ok, but I’m no where near the stunner that TJ is…
So, speaking to another friend of mine, we tossed up some ideas of me sending a text message… Well, he didn’t convince me entirely, and I’m still tossing it up? What to do? What to do?
It would be something like this: “Hey Bogan*, How has your week been? Thought that we could catch up at my party next weekend maybe? Do you want to come?”
So what do you reckon?
To text or not to text?
*I introduced English TJ to the word Bogan – which he absolutely loved and was going to yell at his Aussie workmates the next day… I love introducing new words – Bogan, Dapto briefcase, Dapto handbag etc… Best way to explain Bogan to someone British – Chav!
Oh, I know, it’s wrong to have more than one guy on the brain, but I briefly had a look at MG’s facebook page, and oh dear, he makes my heart skip a beat! Still not over that one!
